The House of Parliament
revisited
by Shahidul Alam
Shangshad Bhaban, the parliament
building of Bangladesh is said to be an architectural masterpiece, designed
in the nineteen sixties, the major part of its life has been spent under
military rule. Times have changed, Dhaka has become a bustling modern city,
the sprawling grounds of the parliament have taken on a new life. Families
gather, people play, roller skate, cycle and practice karate. Ice cream
vendors and balloon wallas join in with children selling peanuts, drinking
water, and of course cups of lemon tea. It is also where peer educators
Fatema, Ameena and their friends spend each evening distributing
condoms to the sex workers who work there. They don't simply distribute
condoms. There is a strong bond between the women, and they share laughter
as much as they share sorrow. They exchange stories, but also discuss what
to feed a new born baby, what treatment to take when one is ill, and which
clients to avoid. They develop collective strategies to dodge the police,
Fatema and the other more senior peer educators deal with the often aggressive
men who hang around. They provide comfort when one of them is violently
treated, provide money
at times of need. A local NGO provides condoms, and pays them a small stipend.
They also learn to read and to write and get basic health education, specifically
learning about AIDS. How it is spread, how it can be prevented, and about
safe sex. They are aware that there are very few options available to them.
Some want to learn driving, others want to go abroad. Some hope they will
get married and have homes of their own. Here as in other countries, there
are older women, younger women and pregnant women. There are eight-year-olds
and Hijras, the ones of ambiguous sexuality. The Hijras earn the most. Surrounding
them all are the men. They walk and they stare and they negotiate. Mostly
they leer. And then there are the police. It is a tenuous survival. Some
of the women have tried to start a different life, but they all came back,
they all agree, there is no way out.
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